Embracing Calla presents a compelling narrative that dives deep into the essence of love, not through the rose-tinted glasses of fairytales, but through the flawed perceptions of its characters. Today, I want to share a little tidbit from this novel that has profoundly impacted my understanding of love.
Benedict’s perspective on love:
Growing up, Benedict idolized the relationship between his parents. To him, their bond was the epitome of perfection, a standard by which all forms of love should be measured. In his mind, love is a one-way street, to have love reciprocated he needed to profess his love and show it enough.
However, the reality of love is far more complex than Benedict’s idealized vision. Love, in its truest form, is a reciprocal exchange of affection, understanding, and respect. It’s not something that can be forced or manifested through sheer willpower. This fundamental misunderstanding becomes Benedict’s undoing in his relationship with Bree.
Benedict and Bree:
Benedict’s unwavering devotion to Bree, despite her lack of reciprocal feelings, highlights a tragic flaw in his perception of love. He believed that by loving enough for both of them, their relationship could flourish. Yet, love cannot be one-sided. Bree’s heart belonged to Sebastian, and no amount of effort from Benedict could alter that reality. His belief that they were destined to be together blinded him to the truth that Bree viewed him merely as a friend with benefits.
For years, Benedict lived under the illusion that he and Bree were a couple. He mistook their sex for a committed relationship, a misconception that led him to consider proposing. This revelation, that he was nothing more than a best friend in Bree’s eyes, shattered his world. The disparity between their feelings highlights a critical lesson about love: assumptions and expectations can cloud our judgment and lead to heartache.
In closing:
Benedict’s experience serves as a poignant reminder that while love may start with an ideal, it must be nurtured with reality, mutual respect, and shared affection to truly blossom. Let us take this lesson to heart and strive for a love that is not just embraced but shared equally among partners.
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